Wednesday, March 31, 2010

"To be content is greater than riches, so love what you have." Epictetus


I tired of shopping. I'm tired of buying crap from Target and thinking of well its only a $1, next thing you know my cart is full of things that will serve of no function in my house. I've tried to do my best to kick this addiction but its hard. I know I must do it though, if not for me for my husband. I would hate to see my husband bring crap home so why should I. I just really need to stay out of store altogether. I need to focus on activities that involve free things, such as walking in the park or reading. This quote just stuck out to me because I just really need to be content in what I have.

SO my challenge for the month of April is to become a minimalist. To live like Ghandi did and only get what I need. I know it will be hard which is why I'm happy I splurged on the $6 nail polish today.
I got the list below from one of my favorite blogs:Zen Habits
1. Accumulate little
Gandhi believed in possessing little except the clothes he wore and some utensils for cooking and eating. He used to give away or auction any gift that was ever given to him.
It may not be possible these days for us to get down to less than ten possessions like Gandhi did, but start cutting down to bare basics. Recycle, give things away, or auction your unwanted possessions.
We tend to spend a lot of time and energy looking after our possessions. By having fewer things to possess and look after, your life naturally becomes simpler.
2. Eat simple food
Gandhi never had a problem with being overweight. He followed a strict vegetarian diet and frequently cooked his own simple food, which was locally produced.
He ate this simple food from a small bowl, a reminder to eat moderately, and at the same time he ate mindfully, often accompanied by prayers. So eat simply and moderately.
3. Dress simply.
Gandhi wore simple clothes that conveyed his message.
There is this anecdotal story of the time when Gandhi met the King of Great Britain in London and he wore his simple wrap around cloth. A journalist asked Gandhi, “Mr Gandhi, did you feel under-dressed when you met the King?” Gandhi replied, “The King was wearing enough clothes for both of us!”
Though it may not be practical to weave your own cloth and make your own clothes, you can simplify your life by dressing for comfort, not to impress. A simple hairstyle can shorten your grooming routine. You could even go as far as Gandhi and Leo Babauta and shave your hair off.
4. Lead a simple, stress-free life
Gandhi never got stressed. He meditated daily and spent hours in reflection and prayer.
Though he was a world leader and idolized by millions, he continued to lead a simple life with few distractions and commitments. He would even interrupt his political meetings to go off and play with children.
And despite all his needs being taken care off, Gandhi still insisted on doing his own simple things. He advocated self-sufficiency and simple work. So don’t take life too seriously — remember to take time out to play.
5. Let your life be your message
Though he was a prolific writer and powerful speaker, in private Gandhi spoke very quietly and only when necessary. He was also very punchy and concise in his writing. He preferred to let his life do the talking for him.
By living a simple life, Gandhi was able to devote his life to his chosen higher purpose. He was totally focussed on his commitment to his people and the world. Even if you don’t wish to be another Gandhi, your life will be much simpler and happier by following his life lessons.
“If one has wealth, it does not mean that it should be thrown away and wife and children should be turned out of doors. It simply means that one must give up attachment of these things!” ~Gandhi
note: the author of this article makes a point to “take up the 100 thing challenge and see if you can get down to owning less than 100 or even less than 50 things.” on his list was a “minimalistic desk”.

Well good bye Gap and target. See you in MAY :(

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Its my birthday!

YAY its my Birthday! Any other year I would have woken my now husband wondering where the gifts are. This year though, I was very content to wake up with the sound of the two of them ( son and husband) playing in living room. My son was giggling as the songs on the baby Einstein played. Man what a difference a year makes.

Anyway...later folks!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Welcome to motherhood


Its been a while since I've posted something new on here and I'm sorry. I'm a new mom and while I think I have everything covered, I still get easily distracted with the free time my son does allot me. Anyway, my topic for today will be about being a new mother. Its harder than it looks. I always took little things for granted such as being to leave the house to go to the store at a drop of a dime. Now if I want to leave and go to the store, I have to pack like I'm going on a three day vacation. Your confidence also goes down when you become a first time mom. Not that I was ever a person that said F*uk the world, but I was also never one to agree with the masses either. Now it seems like I fall victim to the advice of every old woman that crosses my path. I have to hear things like he has the hiccups because he is growing to he has it because I burped him improperly. I had one woman said she noticed his head was swollen and for me to contact the doctor immediately. He was only 1 week old and I was so scared so I called my doctor on a Saturday and had to explain that a woman with no medical background notice my son had swelling on the brain. I went to the doctor that monday and everything was fine and I was left feeling like a fool.


I know it seems like I'm complain and please don't get me wrong, I love being a mother. To know that I have the power to shape a human being is the greatest gift of all. I love being woken up to my son talking away in his bassinet. And everytime I get stressed and feel defeated, he shoots me one of those wonderful smiles that makes me feel like everything is A-OK!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

What to cook...

Today is a blah day. Not because the of the weather but because of me. Its 11 am and I'm already thinking about what I'm going to cook for dinner. I have chicken and Panko bread crumbs...hmmmm

Thai Fried Chicken it is....

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup honey mustard
  • 1/2 cup sweet chili sauce
  • 2 eggs, beaten
  • sea salt to taste
  • 12 chicken drumsticks
  • 4 cups panko bread crumbs
  • 4 cups vegetable oil for frying
Directions
1. Whisk together the honey mustard, chili sauce, eggs, and sea salt in a bowl. Place the chicken drumsticks in a large, seal able plastic bag; pour the marinade over the chicken and seal the bag. Allow to chill in refrigerator at least 4 hours.
2. Preheat an oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
3. Place the bread crumbs in the bottom of a wide dish; dredge the marinated chicken in the bread crumbs to coat. Heat the vegetable oil in a large, deep pan over medium-high heat. Gently lie the breaded chicken into the hot oil until golden brown, 5 to 7 minutes, turning once if needed to get even coloring; transfer to a baking sheet.
4. Cook the chicken legs in the preheated oven until no longer pink at the bone and the juices run clear, about 30 minutes. An instant-read thermometer inserted near the bone should read 165 degrees F (74 degrees C)

Hope its good...

Monday, March 15, 2010

Its a new day...

I'm here to post the adventures of mommy hood and on the way trying to make sure that I maintain good karma....